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Aching Arms has three aims. The first is focused on offering support, the second on training and education and the third, in the words of the charity’s constitution, is to:

Support and promote research into baby loss and the methods of alleviating suffering arising from baby loss and to disseminate the results of such research.

Aching Arms’ innovative approach to baby loss has been established through the: 

  • Offer of an Aching Arms bear -  given as a gift from one bereaved family to another to let bereaved parents know they are not alone;
  • Health Professional Training - on how to offer an Aching Arms bear sensitively and gain a greater insight into the experience of parents whose babies have died;
  • Supporting Arms service - run by bereaved parents who give you the time and space to talk about the loss of your baby and the impact it has had on you;
  • Be Together Programme - for bereaved families to meet and relax with other bereaved families and friends in a range of indoor and outdoor activities;
  • Bereavement Workplace Training - structured around Acknowledge, Understand and Support to help bereaved parents return to work.

If Aching Arms is to maintain its innovative approach, it needs to keep up to date on current bereavement research and any potential impact that could have on changing practice in bereavement care and support.

How does Aching Arms do that? 

Strengthening - relationships with bereavement care charities in the UK and across the world through the International Stillbirth Alliance.

Informing – providing summaries on:

  • Research studies supported by Aching Arms:
  • Existing studies supported by other charities:
  • Varying approaches to bereavement care in different cultures, faith traditions and countries.

Promoting - by using Aching Arms national and international connections to recommend changes in bereavement care.

Read about the latest Research Studies that Aching Arms is involved with below:

Black Couple's Experience of Baby Loss

Black Couple's Experience of Baby Loss

We are supporting Leeds University post graduate, Statsha Lee (Trainee Clinical Psychologist) with their research studying, exploring the experiences of Black couples who go through baby loss in the UK.

They would like to hear from potential couples who meet the following criteria:

  • Self-identify as, Black, Black British, Black African, Black Caribbean, Black Africian-Caribbean and Mixed-Black heritage.
  • Couples and birthing people include; same-sex, transgender, non-binary and heterosexual couples. 
  • Experience of baby loss in the UK from the first trimester onwards, including stillbirth and neonatal loss. There is no time limit on when the loss occured. 
  • Ages 18 and over and currently living in the UK.

Please see more information and necessary forms here to find out more and sign up to be involved.

If you are interested in participating and want to find out more, please contact Statsha Lee by email: hs18sds@leeds.ac.uk

Support for people from ethnic minority backgrounds, in pregnancies after loss.

Support for people from ethnic minority backgrounds, in pregnancies after loss.

We are supporting Manchester University post graduate, Zoyah Sheikh with their research study, exploring support for people from ethnic minority backgrounds in pregnancies after baby loss. 

They would like to hear from parents who are: 

  • Black Africian, Black Caribbean or Pakistani ethnicty. 
  • Are fluent in English, Somali, Urdu or Punjabi
  • Are over 21 years of age
  • Currently live in England
  • Have lost a baby during pregnancy or up to 28 days after birth
  • Received standard NHS maternity care during the pregnancy or pregnancies where loss was experienced.

Please see the Information Leaflet here for more details.

If you are interested in participating and want to find out more, please contact Zoyah Sheikh by email: zoyah.sheikh@postgrad.manchester.ac.uk 

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  • Registered Charity No: 1153296