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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £18 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Miss Catriona Allan

25th March 2025

Baby Allan - Cleasby, Carried for 9 weeks in my womb, carried forever in my heart. Never met, but always loved, love mummy and daddy x

For:Baby Allan-Cleasby

21st March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Elisha Kelly

20th March 2025

Miss you always our babies ✨

For:The Norris-Kelly Twins

24th February 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Amy Wolfe

20th March 2025

Thinking of all the sweet babies, forever in our hearts.

For:Reese Elliot Wolfe

19th March 2021

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Miss Selina Kearney

19th March 2025

We are so sorry for your loss & hope that you will find as much comfort in our bears as our family does from the bear we received at such a difficult sad time with love the Murphy Family. X

For:Devon Murphy

30th January 2025

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Connie Fawcett

19th March 2025

For:Eleanor Jane Fawcett Lawie

10th February 2025

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Katherine Alexander

19th March 2025

For:Robin Alexander

14th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Ms Kate Beveridge

18th March 2025

For:Martha Rose

3rd March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Chloe Hastings

18th March 2025

For:Millie Hastings

2nd August 2024

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jae Hall

18th March 2025

Baby Jax mummy daddy your big sister and big brother miss you so much we wish things could of been different. Love you so much our little Lion. Xxxx

For:Jax Hall

16th October 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Gaynor Campbell

18th March 2025

With love to you from the family of Mali Loveman who was born asleep on the 11/04/2019 xxx

For:Mali Loveman

11th April 2019

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Lauren Swift

18th March 2025

Thinking of you all x

For:Baby Dooley - our little girl

19th September 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Tim Chester Roshin Baranian

15th March 2025

In loving memory of our beautiful little angel Orlaith, such a sort time in our life's but always in our thought's and memories love you to the moon and back Mummy and Daddy xxxx

For:Orlaith Rose Chester-Baranian

15th March 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Ebony Cioclu

15th March 2025

Loosing a child is devastating and heartbreaking just know you are not alone in this journey and I send you a hug and love.

For:Luna Cioclu ( when I see the moon I’ll remember you )

15th March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Joanne Wilkinson

14th March 2025

Forever in our hearts ♥️

For:Leo Negan Wilkinson xx

1st February 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Emma Edwards

14th March 2025

In memory of my baby Ewen born sleeping. On his 1st heavenly birthday. We want this bear to bring some comfort to another family like our bear did for us ❤️💙

For:Ewen Scott Raymond Edwards

14th March 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Stephanie Wiggins

14th March 2025

For:Willow Alice Wiggins

11th March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Barbara Hart

13th March 2025

For:George Macdonald

17th March 2017

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Karen Mitch

13th March 2025

In Memory of Orlah Elizabeth on her 7th Heavenly Birthday. Always in our thoughts and hearts xx

For:Orlah Elizabeth

13th March 2018

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Emily Almond

13th March 2025

You are not alone, this bear is donated to you by us who lost our beautiful baby boy Luca. I hope this brings you comfort.

For:Luca

11th March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Keeley Jackson

13th March 2025

For:Baby Dexter

15th March 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Louise Shaw

12th March 2025

For Lucas, our baby boy.

For:Lucas Shaw

7th March 2025

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Berfin Alver

12th March 2025

For:Ayaz Alver

21st August 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Max Gillespie

11th March 2025

For:George Gillespie

11th March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Marie Hillyard-Adams

11th March 2025

For:Seahorse Kelly

11th March 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Ms Sujata Bhagat

10th March 2025

For:Thind

9th March 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Christopher Hare-Winton

9th March 2025

For:Lyra Pip

9th March 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Ms Amy Walters

9th March 2025

Darling Jemima. Mummy, Daddy and your twin sister Rosie love and miss you everyday xxxxx

For:Jemima Light

15th August 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Holly Barresi

8th March 2025

Happy 6th birthday to our first little girl, love and miss you so much, until we meet again one sweet day x x x

For:Evelyn Barresi

8th March 2019

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Kayleigh Safadi

8th March 2025

In memory of our beautiful niece on her birthday. All our love Aunty kayleigh,uncle phil,Cece & Monroe xxx

For:Evelyn Maggie Rose Barresi

8th March 2019

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Gail Bemrose

7th March 2025

This little bear represents us as he extends his paws in love friendship to you. We understand just how you feel right now. Be in the knowing that there are us before you who support you. xx

For:Scott

7th March 2002

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Victoria Bradwell

6th March 2025

In memory of our gorgeous daughter, Lua. And our rainbow baby who couldn't make it earth side, baby pickle. Loved for a lifetime

For:Lua Pereira

9th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Laura Dickinson

5th March 2025

Hoping this bear brings comfort to someone else like it did to me xx

For:Grace Dickinson

5th March 2018

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Laura Foskett

5th March 2025

My baby girl. Yesterday (4th March) should have been your due date and life should have been so different right now. 💔

For:Hope Foskett

7th September 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Courtney Lowndes

5th March 2025

For:Charlie Lowndes

11th February 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Sara Dooley

5th March 2025

Mummy, daddy and your brother Harrison miss you so much. We Love you lots and lots. Sending kisses and cuddles to heaven, Harley would have been 4 this year and I hope this bear brings someone a little comfort to know you are not alone. Harley was born with a rare heart condition , with many trips up to London he’s consultant did to best to save him. He passed away in my arms with family all around him, we tell he’s brother he now has a guardian angel watching over him. To know your not alone, to know there people who truly understand these bears show our baby’s are all together in heaven, I hope this bear finds a family to give a cuddle to on the most hardest of times xx

For:Harley James Albert Morgan

10th March 2021

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Bethan Owen

5th March 2025

Meddwl amdanat heddiw yn arbennig ar dy ben-blwydd cyntaf xx

For:Emrys Arthur Nicholas

6th March 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

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