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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £18 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Mrs Lou Blackwood

20th November 2024

For:Oscar Blackwood

20th November 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Paul Ashworth

20th November 2024

Not a single day goes by that Oliver isn't in my thoughts, I treasure his memory and our own Aching Arms bear that we received during our loss. To the family who receive this bear, you will never be alone x

For:Oliver Ashworth

15th January 2017

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Daniel Langley

20th November 2024

For:Baby Langley

15th May 2019

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Ian Hayward

20th November 2024

For:Hannah Isabella Hayward

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr James Sealey

20th November 2024

For:Maria Rose Sealey

3rd October 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Tanya Stanley

19th November 2024

Hope it's helps

For:Enzo Stanley-bland

24th April 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Ms Susan Wellings

19th November 2024

May you find this little bear a great comfort to you at this very sad time. X

For:Baby Ryan and his Mum xx

19th November 1995

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Laura Wells

19th November 2024

For:Scarlett May Wells Henderson

18th February 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Emma Wright

18th November 2024

In memory of our brightest star in the sky. Forever loved and missed. We love you to the moon and back Luca. Lots of love Mummy, Daddy and your twin sister Mia xxx

For:Luca John Wright

31st October 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Dorrington

18th November 2024

For:Jack William Dorrington

25th May 2017

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Miss Amy Riley

18th November 2024

So you know you are not in this alone xx

For:Marley

10th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Jade Hutchins

18th November 2024

For:Louella Donlevy

12th June 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Jennifer Collings

18th November 2024

Merry Christmas my beautiful boy xxx

For:Lewis Munro Loughlin

12th March 2010

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Natalie Burrows

18th November 2024

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For:Ethan Stuart Burrows

18th November 2020

£1.00 + £.25 Gift Aid

Mrs Natalie Burrows

18th November 2024

You are not alone in your loss. Sending love to you. X

For:Ethan Stuart Burrows

18th November 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Melanie Cashman

18th November 2024

For:Leo Philip Cashman

18th November 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Nicola McCarroll

18th November 2024

Our precious son & brother, missed beyond words xxxx

For:Charlie McCarroll

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Jo Tremlett

17th November 2024

For:Elodie Tremlett

6th April 2018

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Kerry Fay

17th November 2024

Our darling Lola we miss you every day, but especially on your Birthday. Love you to the moon and back my sweet girl. Love Mummy, Daddy, Frank, Riley and Oliver xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx

For:Baby Lola Rothery Fay

17th November 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Emily Maltby-Gills

17th November 2024

For:Wyatt Emrys Maltby-Gills

8th September 2024

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Miss Hayleigh Carroll

17th November 2024

For:Logan Frederick Laurence Mason

20th February 2018

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Cat Evans

17th November 2024

Sending precious love and hugs to you x

For:Lenny Ruben James Evans

9th January 2024

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Lawrence

17th November 2024

For:Eli Robert Lawrence

13th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Caroline Buttle

17th November 2024

For:Ronnie Paul Winchester

24th September 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Ms Elinor Gill

17th November 2024

For:Dara Gill

8th September 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Katie Hodges

16th November 2024

For:Poppy Hodges

14th June 2020

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Zoe Hillon

16th November 2024

For:Baby Hillon

17th November 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Ann-Marie Aubynn

16th November 2024

For:The Aubynn babies

25th September 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Janice Bennison

16th November 2024

For:Cleo Seren Clark

23rd December 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Anne-Marie Gray

15th November 2024

For:Ru Pamela Sizer

£126.00 + £31.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Carole Martin

15th November 2024

Baby Caroline twin sister of Laura, always in our thoughts x

For:Caroline Martin

28th March 1985

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Robert Southey

15th November 2024

Lots of love Nanny & Grampy

For:Maximus Southey

7th December 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Andrea Southey

15th November 2024

Happy Birthday

For:Maximus Southey

7th December 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Anna Claffey

15th November 2024

Our beautiful girl 🤍

For:Olive Foster

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Zoe Y

15th November 2024

Payment processed through a Beacon-hosted donation form.

For:Baby Jude Patrick Jones

4th May 2024

£1.00 + £.25 Gift Aid

Mrs Rowena Keen

15th November 2024

Our favourite what if

For:Baby in the stars

9th December 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

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